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Tom Seabury

Arrogance vs confidence

'Some people confuse my confidence for arrogance, as they do not know what I have been through' - Nick Kyrgios.


Confidence and arrogance are two terms that are commonly thrown when discussing athletes. An athlete that one person views as the epitome of confidence, another may view as merely arrogant.


Confidence is an essential trait for success rooted in self-belief, while arrogance often stems from an exaggerated sense of superiority.


But what distinguishes the two?


Arrogance can be detrimental to an athlete's journey. It reflects an inflated ego and a dismissive attitude towards others, often overshadowing their true potential. Arrogant athletes tend to underestimate their opponents, neglect their weaknesses, and overlook the importance of continuous improvement. This attitude can isolate them from valuable learning experiences, hinder team dynamics, and ultimately lead to their downfall.


On the other hand, confidence is the cornerstone of achievement and growth. Confident athletes embrace their abilities while recognising their limitations. They understand that success requires relentless dedication, hard work, and perseverance. Genuine confidence breeds humility, respect, and a hunger for continuous learning. It fosters a positive mindset, resilience in the face of challenges, and the ability to bounce back from failures stronger than ever.


Achieving the optimal blend of confidence and humility is a delicate balancing act.


Athletes who strike this balance embody the epitome of excellence. They are acutely aware of their strengths and leverage them to their advantage. Simultaneously, they acknowledge their weaknesses, seeking opportunities for growth and improvement. These athletes respect their competitors, recognising that true greatness is achieved through healthy competition, cooperation, and mutual support.


All coaches, mentors, parents and sports enthusiasts contribute to building and nurturing an environment that cultivates healthy confidence.


Encouraging athletes to believe in themselves, set ambitious goals, and embrace challenges while staying grounded is key.


Promoting teamwork, respect, and sportsmanship fosters an atmosphere where athletes can thrive and develop into exceptional individuals on and off the field.




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